IMPORTANCE OF HAVING FAMILY MEAL
Unfortunately, the family meal where much of the art of conversation is mastered is not even a part of many homes today. With most families not eating together, many other opportunities for nurturing are also lost. The family meal is where manners are learned, as well as gratefulness for the gifts of food and family, and appreciation for those who provided and prepared the meal. It is a wonderful setting for teaching respect for parents and learning the art of loving hospitality toward guests. Many practical (but vanishing) skills are learned by children of all ages, such as the proper setting of a table, cooking and baking skills, stewardship in using produce and leftovers in a timely fashion, nutrition, cleanliness in food preparation, careful dishwashing, etc. This is also a great time to be with Mom. Working together with our children in all aspects of life—cleaning the house, raking leaves, running errands, and fixing broken things are all part of mentoring and essential to the successful preparation of our children for adulthood.
Janice
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
東方Articles 2 (NURTURING OUR CHILDREN)
NURTURING OUR CHILDREN
Educating a child’s mind without nurturing his soul and spirit will only introduce facts and information; it will not teach him how to live a godly life. Since children learn from our attitudes as well as our actions, we must constantly be aware of what we are conveying to our children by our daily life.
1) Are we teaching them honesty and integrity in business dealings and relationships? They learn respect for others in how we treat others and speak about others.
2) What are we teaching them in the way we drive our cars, interact with salespeople, or tip waiters and waitresses?
3) Are we generous in giving to others, or are we teaching our children selfishness? Do we push our way in line, or do we invite others to go ahead of us? What they learn from us in dealing with others will most certainly be demonstrated in their relationships with their siblings and others.
4) What do we teach our children about contentment if we gripe and complain and are not content ourselves? Are our children learning to value work (Jesus Himself was a carpenter) or are they developing attitudes of laziness or complacency?
5) Are they learning the joy of serving others, or do they expect to be served themselves? All these things are learned through careful nurturing, moment by moment, year in and year out.
6) Do our children know they are loved unconditionally by God and by us? In other words, just as God’s love for us is not based upon our performance, beauty, or ability, but on who we are as persons, so our love for our children must be consistent, regardless of their failures. As they grow in security, knowing they are unconditionally loved by God and their parents, they will be able to understand they do not have to win every argument, or always need to be right. They will learn it is OK to make mistakes, or not to be “the best” in everything; in short, it’s all right not to be perfect. This is learned most effectively by example, when we as parents humble ourselves and confess and ask forgiveness of our children when we have offended them.
Janice
Educating a child’s mind without nurturing his soul and spirit will only introduce facts and information; it will not teach him how to live a godly life. Since children learn from our attitudes as well as our actions, we must constantly be aware of what we are conveying to our children by our daily life.
1) Are we teaching them honesty and integrity in business dealings and relationships? They learn respect for others in how we treat others and speak about others.
2) What are we teaching them in the way we drive our cars, interact with salespeople, or tip waiters and waitresses?
3) Are we generous in giving to others, or are we teaching our children selfishness? Do we push our way in line, or do we invite others to go ahead of us? What they learn from us in dealing with others will most certainly be demonstrated in their relationships with their siblings and others.
4) What do we teach our children about contentment if we gripe and complain and are not content ourselves? Are our children learning to value work (Jesus Himself was a carpenter) or are they developing attitudes of laziness or complacency?
5) Are they learning the joy of serving others, or do they expect to be served themselves? All these things are learned through careful nurturing, moment by moment, year in and year out.
6) Do our children know they are loved unconditionally by God and by us? In other words, just as God’s love for us is not based upon our performance, beauty, or ability, but on who we are as persons, so our love for our children must be consistent, regardless of their failures. As they grow in security, knowing they are unconditionally loved by God and their parents, they will be able to understand they do not have to win every argument, or always need to be right. They will learn it is OK to make mistakes, or not to be “the best” in everything; in short, it’s all right not to be perfect. This is learned most effectively by example, when we as parents humble ourselves and confess and ask forgiveness of our children when we have offended them.
Janice
Thursday, August 2, 2007
東方Good News 2 ~ Evangelism
East LaoBoo evangelism @ Simei on 1st August.
"Hi, excuse me, we would like to invite you for a special event....Podigal Son......."
We kept searching for people who are open to come. And God bless our hearts. With 9 of us, we have contacts of 7 new friends and one of them is open to study the bible the next evening. To God be the glory!
Janice.
"Hi, excuse me, we would like to invite you for a special event....Podigal Son......."
We kept searching for people who are open to come. And God bless our hearts. With 9 of us, we have contacts of 7 new friends and one of them is open to study the bible the next evening. To God be the glory!
Janice.
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
東方Simi Happening ~ August
Church
Aug - "Homecoming: The Return of the Prodigal Son" Special Service 10am - 12pm
19th Aug - CCC swimming carnival at former SMU campus 8:30 am - 12:30pm
26th "Homecoming: The Return of the Prodigal Son" Special Service 10am - 12pm
31st Aug - starting of Friday Parenting class (0-6 yrs old)
Happy Birthday for all the August babies:
6th - Alyssa (4 years old)
10th - Serene
17th - Lily Ho
25th - Meng Fong
29th - Joyln (1 year old)
August spiritual babies:
7th - Victor (5 yrs)
15th - Eleen (9 yrs)
22th - Melanie (14 yrs)
28th - Kin Ching (19 yrs)
Sisters
Chilli crab eating & fellowship (cooked by our chef Lai Peng & sponsored by Soo Mui)
Date: TBA
Aug - "Homecoming: The Return of the Prodigal Son" Special Service 10am - 12pm
19th Aug - CCC swimming carnival at former SMU campus 8:30 am - 12:30pm
26th "Homecoming: The Return of the Prodigal Son" Special Service 10am - 12pm
31st Aug - starting of Friday Parenting class (0-6 yrs old)
Happy Birthday for all the August babies:
6th - Alyssa (4 years old)
10th - Serene
17th - Lily Ho
25th - Meng Fong
29th - Joyln (1 year old)
August spiritual babies:
7th - Victor (5 yrs)
15th - Eleen (9 yrs)
22th - Melanie (14 yrs)
28th - Kin Ching (19 yrs)
Sisters
Chilli crab eating & fellowship (cooked by our chef Lai Peng & sponsored by Soo Mui)
Date: TBA
東方Bible Insights 2 (Jesus loves me!)
Jesus loves me!
Every year Jesus celebrated Passover. However, throughout Jesus' adult life, celebrating the Passover must have been an intensly emotional experience for he was fully aware that the true Passover lamb had come into the world and had yet to be killed.Jesus' physical suffering may start when he was captured but his emotional pain started since he was old enough to understand.Revelation7:14 It was the Lamb's blood that washed the saints' robes & made them white, and the Church - the New Jerusalem (Rev21:2) - is described as the wife of the Lamb (Rev19:7).Jesus' blood pays the ransom of my freedom from sin and corruption. My sins demand retribution, and only the payment of Jesus' life - through his blood - can buy back my life.Matthew20:28, Mark10:45The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.
Jesus loves me this I know,For the bible tells me so.Jesus loves me when I'm good,When I do the things I should.Jesus loves me when I'm bad,Only makes him very sad!Yes, Jesus loves me! Yes, Jesus loves me! Yes, Jesus loves me, for the bible tells me so.
~Anonymous
Every year Jesus celebrated Passover. However, throughout Jesus' adult life, celebrating the Passover must have been an intensly emotional experience for he was fully aware that the true Passover lamb had come into the world and had yet to be killed.Jesus' physical suffering may start when he was captured but his emotional pain started since he was old enough to understand.Revelation7:14 It was the Lamb's blood that washed the saints' robes & made them white, and the Church - the New Jerusalem (Rev21:2) - is described as the wife of the Lamb (Rev19:7).Jesus' blood pays the ransom of my freedom from sin and corruption. My sins demand retribution, and only the payment of Jesus' life - through his blood - can buy back my life.Matthew20:28, Mark10:45The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.
Jesus loves me this I know,For the bible tells me so.Jesus loves me when I'm good,When I do the things I should.Jesus loves me when I'm bad,Only makes him very sad!Yes, Jesus loves me! Yes, Jesus loves me! Yes, Jesus loves me, for the bible tells me so.
~Anonymous
東方I Got Something To Ask/Say 1 (Why in Jesus Name?)
Why do we end our prayer "in Jesus name"?
Choose one answer below:
(1) because Jesus says so
(2) because Jesus can ask God on our behalf
(3) because we go to God through Jesus
Here's what Jesus says in John 16:26-27. 'In that day you will ask in my name. I am not saying that I will ask the Father on your behalf. No, the Father himself loves you because you have loved me and have believed that I came from the Father and entered the world; now I am leaving the world and going back to the Father'.Somthing for us to take into heart when praying.Amen.
~Anonymous
Choose one answer below:
(1) because Jesus says so
(2) because Jesus can ask God on our behalf
(3) because we go to God through Jesus
Here's what Jesus says in John 16:26-27. 'In that day you will ask in my name. I am not saying that I will ask the Father on your behalf. No, the Father himself loves you because you have loved me and have believed that I came from the Father and entered the world; now I am leaving the world and going back to the Father'.Somthing for us to take into heart when praying.Amen.
~Anonymous
東方Prayer Requests
Lilly Young will be starting her chemotherapy treatment on Aug 8th.
Please pray for her to have strength/ minimal pain & for Yeo family to be strong.
~Joyce
Please pray for her to have strength/ minimal pain & for Yeo family to be strong.
~Joyce
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